Just the Three of Us
About MeName: Koh Pei Ling
DoB: 2 January
Some Brief Updates... Finally
Friday, June 17, 2011First of all, I must apologise for not updating my blogging for ages. I’m pleasantly surprised that some of my ex-students are still checking out my blog. Thank you for trying to keep in touch.
Ok, here are some MAJOR updates.
Another muffin is baking in the oven right now. I’m about 8 months pregnant and will be due for delivery in early August. Grace is going to have a baby sister soon! = )
I’ve wanted to update my blog during the June holidays. But we have been really busy shifting into our new place and we have just settled in this week. The happiest person of course is our dear Grace who gets to go to the playground and swim at the pool EVERYDAY. What luxury!
Finally, the long-awaited photos of Grace.
The Water Baby
Wednesday, November 24, 2010
Today is the start of the 2010 year end holidays. And to ensure you start this period of adventure with a bang, we brought you to Civil Service Club to swim. We have not brought you swimming since June because of the terrible Hand Foot and Mouth Disease (HFMD) that was spreading like wildfires from July. Thankfully, that has kind of stopped (for now).
Well, you are obviously a water baby. I am not just being the proud parent here, but seriously, there’s no fear in you about the water. You even wanted to walk around the baby pool without me holding you, but I am not as confident as you are. Expectedly, you wailed when we took you out, but not as bad as I expected (I hear worse ones when you Grandma or Mum takes you out from the bath) and you are napping like a log now as Papa is writing this. Haha.
More adventures to coming your way!
Grace, the Party Girl
Monday, November 15, 2010
If you still do not know by now, you really enjoy birthdays. We say so because whenever the CD plays the Happy Birthday song, you will start to clap and pretend to blow candles. It’s probably the only song that will stop you from fussing out of the hundreds that we have, for now. And what a magical weapon the song is when we need to distract you in the car.
When you attend birthday parties, you never fail to clap enthusiastically (which is really very different from other kiddies your age or even those who are slightly older, but I digress as a proud parent). And of course, you would always volunteer to blow the candles, never mind the distance you are away from the cake. The ultimate evidence of your enjoying birthdays is you will always ask us to feed you with the cake. In fact, you demanded a second serving of the vegetarian black forest cake during your Great-Grandma’s birthday.
Good news is there are going to be quite a few birthdays coming next January and February (your mummy, + grandfather, and then your grandmother). But all good things come to an end, as there is a long drought till yours in September.
Monday, October 25, 2010
Firstly, apologies for the lack of updates, from your Papa’s perspective as I have been real busy with work.
Over the past few weeks, so much have happened. What struck me particularly is how mischievous you have grown. I do not mean this in the negative or bad way, but rather, it brings a smile to me as I type this. You resemble your old man to the extent where worrying thoughts of you being overly-demanding or passionate (depending on perspectives) may actually affect you negatively in future. I do think it is great for us to live our lives passionately, to laugh out loud, to cry/shed tears and to voice our opinions without any fear of repercussions. However, the truth is people are generally sensitive, and sometimes, we need to exercise a certain amount of self-control. Now, that will be a difficult lesson to teach you as even I am trying to find the right balance.
So what’s the plus side of your mischievousness? Well, you simile and laugh with no hesitation and that causes joy to radiate throughout our home. And for now, this is all that matters!
Grace! Watch Out!!!
Thursday, October 21, 2010
Grace has been very eager to perfect her newly-learned motor skill (walking) lately. Recently, much to our alarm, she started running around the house. Just as we were wondering when she would have her first bump, it happened yesterday afternoon when Mum was about to leave. She tripped and hit her head. My heart sank when I saw her face plastered against the shoe cabinet. She cried 2 weeks worth of tears. Heartache!
We sprang into action of icing her bump to reduce the swell before bringing her to the doctor. Though she returned to normalcy after wailing inconsolably for 10 minutes, she’s under close monitoring for the next 24 hours.
The Husband’s response?
Husband: I told you not be overly-confident.
Husband: So what do you have to say to me? *in jest*
Me: Nothing… it was an accident. *defensively*
Truth be told, it was really hard watching Grace get hurt. It’s even harder not to feel guilty. There were many thoughts of “I could have and should have” done this and that. Well, as part of the healing process, here’s the apology.
Mama is sorry for not being vigilant enough. It’s my negligence. I will try my best to prevent accidents from happening in future. How I wish the bump is on me and not on you. Praying much that God will continue to watch over you and keep you safe. XOXO
To the Husband:
Your “teachings” have not fallen on deaf ears. Have I got the 3 parts of a sincere apology correct? =P
1) I’m sorry.
2) It’s my fault.
3) How can I make it right? (The most important part which makes the apology sincere)
Addicted to Grace
Recently, the Husband and I had to attend a wedding dinner of a close friend. To put it on record, that was the most elaborated wedding I’ve ever attended and most probably in my lifetime. We expected the dinner to end late, so we decided not to bring Grace along. Actually, I was secretly delighted as this would be the first time that the Husband and I had some couple time ever since Grace was born. We thought we could enjoy the night without having to fuss over Grace. We were wrong. We started to miss her even as we were walking to the car.
Monday, October 18, 2010
Grace seems to be very eager to embrace her independence and freedom recently. Ever since she started toddling, she can’t wait to take off at every opportunity. She will shrug away our offer to hold her hand and insist on walking on her own without any assistance. This is actually more backbreaking than having to carry her as we have to scamper after her.
My fear of weaning her from nursing proves to be unfounded. She actually weaned herself off right after she turned one. Probably she finds nursing too infantile for her now that she is a toddler.
Just a few entries back, I wrote about the trauma of weaning Grace off her night feeds. Apparently, she’s in the process of weaning herself off the night feeds too. She has her last feed at 9.30p.m everyday, sleeps before 10p.m and usually wakes up between 4.30am and 6am for a milk feed. On good days, she falls back to sleep. Otherwise, she will be very eager to begin her day as early as 6am. Theoretically, as long as a baby sleeps through 6-8 hours, that’s considered sleeping through the night. However, a part of me still greedily wishes that she will sleep for a longer stretch. Let’s see if the situation improves by the end of the year.
We have one more battle to fight. The Husband and I think this is going to be a BIG one. I shall call this “Mission Impossible – The Pacifier”. Although she only takes the pacifier to soothe herself to sleep, it seems that she's rather reliant on it at the moment. We don’t know when and how we are going to do it. I did some reading up on strategies to wean babies off the pacifier. However, I have my apprehensions as I have come to realise that there is usually a clear divergence between theory and reality. Without fail, the authors will include infamous disclaimers such as “Each baby is unique” or “It will vary from baby to baby”. I may just throw those theories out of the window and go with my instincts.
A note of caution to any parent-to-be who happens to read this post:
The pacifier is truly an ingenious invention. It soothes the parents more than the baby. With the pacifier, there’s peace in the household, but be mindful that this is just a short respite. So consider yourself warned. Don’t ask for trouble unless trouble troubles you!